Quite so.
I love being alone with my wife. ::shuts and locks the door::
Oh... that's not what you meant? Ahem, well, actually I wasn't looking when I found her. I was just living life, or fighting through it really, and we met entirely by accident without the intention of finding love for who knows how long if ever. I mean, some people go to bars, or meet people on the internet, they're looking, even if not actively. But I wasn't. Some people called me "the monk," actually, but then I met her and the rules changed for both of us.
We neither looked for it nor resisted it. Satisfaction in oneself, contentment in one's friends, happpiness in one's love.
Zaijian,
Tiger